I made the worst mistake.Well, I transferred colleges.And last year I tried to join a sorority, got accepted, but didn;t continue to become a member because of fmaily problems, grades in class was slipping, so after that I would see the member's and they would smile, say hello, conversate,so everything was cool, unfortunately, I got involved with a guy whom is very good friends with them and to add his sister is one, I know he;'s sister,.Anyway, we became intimate, a few times, and basically after a few months of talking, he told me not to call him anymore, and that if I did he would tell everyone my business, AND ger a restraining order against me"because his sister does have my application" I'm like "What"! I devastated because I didn't even warrant an threat like that...all he had to tell me was get lost..but it's embarrasing because now the member's don's speak, and I really want join this organization but I think he might have spread false rumors about me.What do I do?
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This belongs under Singles %26 Dating.not Ethics.
Having said that: it seems that you may be asking if you were wrong ethically to sleep with this guy after "talking"..
Honey it sounds to me like you got used for booty call, he's done and so are you. He's probably bragged a bit, and if sorority's are anything today like they were in the late 70s when I was in college.
I'm thinking you are spending the rest of your college career as a GDI. Which by the way--I was, and my life has progressed JUST FINE as an adult.
Learn not to burn. Next time don't be so naive to get intimate with another person without knowing them.
I think you asked this same question a few days ago but with some different details. Forget about them and move on. He can't get a restraining order unless you lived together or you have threatened his life so don't worry about that but you probably shouldn't call him anymore. He sounds like a total creep. There are lots of them in college.
Your right you made a mistake in trusting the wrong person. You were used and set lose. Next time be a little slower in jumping into bed. As for the soriety, you may have to let that one go.
Sister,
If they're going to judge you negatively for being 'human' then you need ask yourself if you want to be wasting your precious time with their 'association'.
If you know his sister, then talk to her. You should be able to guage from her reaction how the rest of the coven, ahem, excuse me, group, will treat you.
If that doesn't work and the rumours start...
Tell everyone that he has a small dick.
He deserves it...
D...
ps. Don't you have any brothers...? Set them on him...!
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