i know she works in the college and she's busy, i respect that. the friendship is more important than that though.
would a girl decide not to go out with a guy, if her boss has told her not to do so or if her boss doesn't like me or if her boss doesn't like me spending too much time there. what is the point in knowing someone if there is no involvement.
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Work is for work, not fraternizing. Most places have rules for such things and do not allow it.
You shouldn't be talking to her during work.
a person can get fired for handling personal business at work...including talking to friends
Maybe you shouldnt be trying to talk to her while she is working.
And no, there are very few instances where an employer would interfere with the worker's relationship on an official level. The only instance I can think of is when two employees are dating one another because that may be against company policy.
If this is her "job", then she is being paid to "work", not hang out with you. You should talk to her when she's not working. Friendship's are important, but try to understand the employers point of view. If she is talking to you, she is not doing what she is supposed to be doing. Set a time to visit with your friend after work, or on her day off.
logic and justice dicates if a boss interfears negativly in your social and love life you can target his and his family on a fairs fair lets see how you like it basis.
If a boss did this to me he would be VERY SORRY.
A decent company works well with happy realxed staff then staff wnat to work and support the comapny.
So anyone who attacks relationships is a bad company.
You will spend most time at work and its usually the only place you get to know people unlike a bar where you have 2 secs for a good chat up line.
If a boss has any sense hes sees you tow and makes a deal... complete your quotas... 5 mins in the cupboard
Your relationship is not more important than her position during her working hours. You shouldn't be hanging out there at all. It makes her look bad and makes you look like you have nothing better to do than hang around. Go find something to do and see her when she's available, instead of jeopardizing her position because you're so needy.
Well..they certainly do not have a right to restrict someone talking to other person or dating them. But they can object if u talking to her whole day and the work is getting done very late than expected. If ur efficiency at work decreases cuz of the loss of ur interest or u talking to her then emplyers certainly mind the friendship between u two.
Ofcourse they dont have right to restrict someone but how can u prove urself when they kick u out of job. Ur r less bound to getting a promotion or u wont b the good person in office and might effect ur career.
Its better to keep ur friendship to professionlism and have ur friendship carried on after work. In this situation they shouldnt mind. Keep ur relationship quiet and dont show off.
Being simple n quiet will help u more than raising a voice. !!
Boy do you ever have your priorities backwards!
When a person works - the employer expects them to be there to get the job done and that's it! You do NOT bother her when she's at work! If you're truly involved with her - you'd realize this. Friendship and her work will survive as long as you both work at equally and keep them separate.
If you continue to show up at her job - her boss has the right to fire her and then she will blame you and that will be the end of your friendship forever! Do not do this to her - you respect her having a job but you still want to show up and cause issues.... take a few moments and look at the whole picture - do you NOT see something wrong with what you are doing....
You can have a friend ship, with involvement - but that is done on personnal time - NOT work time!
From the employer's side they hired your friend to work for a certain number of hours and they pay her a salary. During work hours she is required to do what the employer has directed. Yes, she probably would like to spend that time with friends, but your friend has given her word that she will work in return for money. The employer can restrict his/her employees from ALL non-business contact during work hours. AND Legally if the employer finds she is chatting rather than working the employer can fire her.
From what you have posted your friends boss is aware that you exist. Probably the boss knows about you because you are that 'pesky person' who calls/visits your friend at work. To the employer your calls show that you do not respect the fact that during work hours your friend is paid to work not to chat. The employer may also think you are inconsiderate and rude.
If this person truly is your "best friend" than you need to restrict your visits/chats with her. If you do not it is very possible that your best friend will be fired, and that would not help your relationship with her.
Noone can prevent you or forbid you from dating a person of your choice. Especially someone's employer.are you serious? Your personal life is just that...PERSONAL. He can tell her to tell you not to socialize during working hours...after all she gets paid to do her job, not talk on the phone or socialize...but he most certainly cannot give the ultimatum that she must not date or be harassed at work about it or even fired. Thats why there are such things as labor laws and attorneys to enforce them! So, the point is that if shes telling you the reason she cant see you is because of her boss, its just an easy excuse shes using, as well as one she is doubting you will research.
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